sex therapy

What is a sex therapist?

While anyone can call themselves a sex therapist, including people who have no training as a therapist, I am a Certified Sex Therapist (CST) through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). In order to become a Certified Sex Therapist with AASECT, one must be a licensed mental health professional in their state, be in good ethical standing, complete extensive education and coursework related to human sexuality, sex therapy interventions and techniques, and receive clinical supervision with a Certified Sex Therapy Supervisor. You can find me verified on the AASECT Provider Directory. I completed my Sex Therapy Certificate from California Institute of Integral Studies (CIIS) and receive regular, ongoing sex therapy education through attending lectures, workshops, and consultation.

I offer sex therapy and relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and partners navigating sexuality, intimacy, identity, and connection. My approach is affirming, trauma-informed, and grounded in the belief that sexuality is an important part of overall wellbeing.

What is sex therapy?

Sex therapy is first and foremost psychotherapy - there is no sexual contact or touching between therapist and client. For more about how I approach therapy, read here.

I love to help people communicate more effectively about sex and pleasure. I lend my humor and ease to the therapy process. I do not pathologize human sexuality and diversity, but rather see it as part of the range of human experiences. I take great care and sensitivity when approaching the topic of sex, with the intention of creating a therapy environment of comfort and ease.

I am proud of my previous role as a Behavioral Health Specialist at Planned Parenthood Northern California, where I provided therapeutic support to patients alongside their reproductive health care. Working as part of a multidisciplinary medical team — including nurses, psychiatrists, and medical support staff — continues to influence my approach in private practice today. When needed, I can also work with your other care providers, especially if you are seeking therapy for support with a sexual issue that has a medical component.

What do people talk about in sex therapy?

Some people come to sex therapy just to talk about sex in a welcoming space—as we’re often not given any venue to talk openly about sex in our society. Others come to work on a specific topic. Some of the concerns clients come to see me for include:

• Gender Identity and Affirming Sex Therapy

• Sexuality Exploration and Identity

• Coming Out and LGBTQ+ Identity Support

• Sexual Trauma Recovery

• Asexuality and Mixed-Orientation Relationships

• Sexual Confidence and Body Acceptance

• Religious Trauma and Reclaiming Sexuality

• Sexual Shame and Self-Acceptance

• Sex Education and Sexual Wellness

• Porn Use and Sexual Wellness